Sexism in Sororities [Updated 2/27]
Full Disclosure: I know someone (Erin) connected to this issue and she is referenced in the following article. But being even this close to the situation or not, this story would appall me. I’m not sure how much detail I can/should get into so I will make my own commentary brief and quote liberally from the story.
Sorority Evictions Raise Issue of Looks and Bias
Worried that a negative stereotype of the sorority was contributing to a decline in membership that had left its Greek-columned house here half empty, Delta Zeta’s national officers interviewed 35 DePauw members in November, quizzing them about their dedication to recruitment. They judged 23 of the women insufficiently committed and later told them to vacate the sorority house.
The 23 members included every woman who was overweight. They also included the only black, Korean and Vietnamese members. The dozen students allowed to stay were slender and popular with fraternity men — conventionally pretty women the sorority hoped could attract new recruits. Six of the 12 were so infuriated they quit.
“Virtually everyone who didn’t fit a certain sorority member archetype was told to leave,” said Kate Holloway, a senior who withdrew from the chapter during its reorganization.
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Despite those incidents, the chapter appears to have been home to a diverse community over the years, partly because it has attracted brainy women, including many science and math majors, as well as talented disabled women, without focusing as exclusively as some sororities on potential recruits’ sex appeal, former sorority members said.
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In September, Ms. Menges and Kathi Heatherly, a national vice president of the sorority, visited the chapter to announce a reorganization plan they said would include an interview with each woman about her commitment. The women were urged to look their best for the interviews.
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A few days after the interviews, national representatives took over the house to hold a recruiting event. They asked most members to stay upstairs in their rooms. To welcome freshmen downstairs, they assembled a team that included several of the women eventually asked to stay in the sorority, along with some slender women invited from the sorority’s chapter at Indiana University, Ms. Holloway said.
There’s plenty more so, as they say, you should Read The Whole Article. It’s an appalling situation and really highlights issues that go beyond this one sorority. it goes into a whole raft of women’s issues including body issues and what makes a woman “worthwhile” (i.e. intelligence and service vs. sex appeal).
I couldn’t be more proud of Erin and all the women of Delta Zeta at DePauw for how they are handling this very, very stressful situation. The media circus that has attached itself to this isn’t making it any easier.
A couple other blogs that have mentioned/covered the situation:
- Bitch PhD: Heroines of the Week; or, Sisterhood is Powerful
- Taking Down Words: DePauw Sorority Winds Up In The National Limelight
- Grabapple: Last Of The Geekhicans
- Feministing: Sisters of Substance
- Shakespeare’s Sister: My Sisters
Update: Local news getting into it.
- WTHR Channel 13: DePauw students angry over sorority ousting. Video (this link may or may not work. I think you need Windows Media PLayer 11 for this to work)
Channel 8 and channel 6 also did interviews but their stories are not on their websites yet. Still not a peep from The Star.
Update II: The story finally makes the Indianapolis Star. The article frames the story around larger greek issues at DePauw and it seems like they relied on other reporting more than their own. I’m still amazed that it took the New York Times covering this story plus more national media attention for the State’s largest newspaper (only 50 miles from Greencastle) to say anything about it. Ahhh The Star. Quality. :\
Update III More links.
- Good Morning America had two ex-members on and other taped interviews. The video is behind ABC’s “premium video” wall, but there is a story online about it.
- The story appeared on CNN’s Paula Zahn show last night. Video link here (works on with Windows Media Player 11 and Internet Explorer)
Update IV Local news stations Channel 8 and 6 have both posted videos
- Channel 8 (CBS) WISH Link to video (again, idiots only make it work in Internet Explorer)
- Channel 6 (ABC) WRTV Text story and video. It didn’t work in my Firefox, but it did work in someone else’s so worth a try.
I’m sure there are more links around the blogosphere. If you know any, post them in the comments.
Erin is also a regular at the Indianapolis chapter of Drinking Liberally that I run.
Erin, you and all of the other brave women of DZ at DePauw are an inspiration. I couldn’t be more proud to know you.
bitchphd wrote:
Tell Erin she rocks, and that science needs more women exactly like her.
Posted on 27-Feb-07 at 12:55 am | Permalink
Kinuk wrote:
Wow! Go, Erin! What a complete and total shocker, though. I cannot believe that women are still being judged on the colour of their skin and on their weight and shape.
Posted on 27-Feb-07 at 1:01 pm | Permalink
roorooB wrote:
1) You should also be proud of your eloquence in supporting Erin. I’m sure she appreciates it.
2) As an IU graduate, I’m amused at your astonishment at the Star’s “speed” in picking up the story. As the newspaper of record in a state that IMO will continue to rank at the bottom of educational rankings as long as there are rankings (although there’s always Texas :D) you ask why?
3) Kinuk, I don’t know if I’m encouraged at your idealism or breathless at your naivete. Perhaps a little of both.
4) I leave you with a note I left with another blogger (another DZ alum) who was commenting on this:
“What on earth were they thinking, that being overweight or a racial minority amounts to a negative image?”
As - soooo ironically - a biracial woman, a sorority woman, and an IU graduate, I’d like to share that I’m SURE that that’s EXACTLY what DZ Nationals were thinking.
What amuses me deeply about this horrific situation, all its negative ramifications aside in the current cultural climate, is the narrow thinking of the DZ National officers on what constitutes a “socially awkward” state, and their hideously limited thinking as to how to effectively wage a PR campaign to combat that stereotype on campus, if they were in fact concerned with how it was affecting their recruitment (assuming that their financial concerns were, in fact, the “bottom line”, and not a smokescreen for something more scurrilous).
It’s clear to me that, either they had no PR professionals within their alumna sisterhood they could call on, that they didn’t call on the ones they could have, or the ones they did have weren’t any good. Searing irony for a sorority full of “smart ” girls. (As a DST with a couple of graduate degrees, I continue to smirk and postulate that the meek may yet perhaps inherit.)
In closing - with apologies to Erin S. - let’s all remember that Dan Quayle too was a DePauw graduate.
P-O-T-A-T-O-E.
Posted on 01-Mar-07 at 12:20 am | Permalink
Big T wrote:
As a man of concience, I am disgusted with the actions of this sorority. Myself Multiracial and my future wife’s family with a history of plus size women lends me to think deeply on this agenda. I can only pray that when the time comes for children of my house to attend college, I will not have to watch my precious little girl beat the arrogance out of some bleached little DZ for explaining her questionable views on what is or is not an “acceptable pledge”.
Hmm.. now I have to save for college and Bail money…
Posted on 24-Sep-07 at 10:35 am | Permalink
Black Sex and Porn wrote:
Black Sex and Porn…
Sorry, it just sounds like a crazy idea for me :)…
Posted on 01-Oct-07 at 2:42 am | Permalink